Being busy is an excuse many use when we either screw up or can’t do something in a timely fashion.Of all the various responsibilities in my life, I consider being a parent a top priority. That’s why I make sure to not put work or other obligations ahead of the kids. That doesn’t mean I’m… Read more »

The last two weeks have been a blur.Since the third week of December, I have basically spent each day reminding myself what day it is in the week because it has never felt like the day it should be.The main difference with this year’s Christmas and New Year’s weeks was the timing of the holidays…. Read more »

One of these upcoming years photos with Santa will become a thing of the past.Until that sad day comes, however, we will continue to make it an annual tradition, so we can look back at these snapshots in time. Each year when we bring out our Christmas decorations, Pam places each of the framed photos… Read more »

Although it’s sensitive business to talk religious issues, I am feeling the need this time of year.I wish we were able to make it to church more often with our children. The desire and intent is there, but, unfortunately, youth sports on Sundays often keeps us from attending church. It’s a shame we are in… Read more »

It was a week of musical performances for our kids.They were two different experiences but each a lot of fun and sources of pride for us.Our kids’ personalities are about as difficult as they come. Beckett is extroverted, talkative and lively. On the other hand, Carson is introverted, subdued and quiet.Consequently, the prospect of musical… Read more »

Carson cracks me up on a daily basis without saying a word.His sense of humor is such a delight because laughing is so important. He conveys his dry and sophisticated wit, despite the fact he’s non-verbal. I like to think it says a lot about his personality. He tends to be the introverted type around… Read more »

I continue to be a sucker for reading good parenting commentaries.Some of the columns I sluff off as inapplicable to what’s happening in my world, but there are many articles that cover germane topics to what Pam and I think about on a daily basis. I find these stories therapeutic to a degree.In general, I… Read more »

School grades are viewed differently in our home.In a perfect household, as if that exists, every child would be held to the same standard with mirroring expectations. That’s not the case at all in our family.We expect Beckett to excel and do well in school. When he doesn’t meet expectations, as was the case recently… Read more »

My kids have learned a lot about loss this year as three of their grandparents have passed away since March.The latest being two weeks ago when my mom’s husband of 10 years, Bob Bell, died. The service was held last Sunday.In the days leading up to the service, Beckett said he wanted to talk about… Read more »

Carson turned 9 years old Monday.He’s so incredible school was closed for him on his special day as well as the day after. That’s at least what we told him and he loved it.Since Carson is not one for being the center of attention, big birthday parties are not his thing. I will never forget… Read more »